doc: clarify that optional attrs in a function argument will be ignored unless specified

In `args@{ a ? 1 }: /* ... */` the value `a` won't be a part of `args`
unless it's specified when calling the function, the default value will
be ignored in this case.

My personal point of view is that this behavior is a matter of taste, at
least I was pretty sure that unmatched arguments will be a part of
`args@` while debugging some Nix code last week.

I decided to add a warning to the docs which hopefully reduces the
confusion of further Nix developers who thought the same about `args@`.

doc/manual/expressions/language-constructs.xml

@@ -217,7 +217,25 @@ but can also be written as:
   ellipsis(<literal>...</literal>) as you can access attribute names as 
   <literal>a</literal>, using <literal>args.a</literal>, which was given as an
   additional attribute to the function.
-  </para></listitem>
+  </para>
+
+  <warning>
+   <para>
+    The <literal>args@</literal> expression is bound to the argument passed to the function which
+    means that attributes with defaults that aren't explicitly specified in the function call
+    won't cause an evaluation error, but won't exist in <literal>args</literal>.
+   </para>
+   <para>
+    For instance
+<programlisting>
+let
+  function = args@{ a ? 23, ... }: args;
+in
+ function {}
+</programlisting>
+    will evaluate to an empty attribute set.
+   </para>
+  </warning></listitem>
 
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